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If you really care what they look like when they have no description, just blatantly walk up to them and say "What do you look like?"

I find it laughable people are complaining about not being able to level up. My PC Meriel, cannot do a fairly large portion of the starting quests, as she will not deal with non elves.
 
Try playing a racist and then say it's too hard to do anything :o
 
 
Though I do not think the OP was complaining about difficulty, but how lame and OOC it is to have to drop party because you don't fall within the limit.
I agree here, but the DMs are always nice enough to help. For balance, I say leave it as is!