So here's the idea: post tactical advice, followed by examples where you think they don't apply for rp reasons, and followed by what's exploiting and what's not. That way DMs can also chime in to say "hey, this is bad"
Here's the basic that should keep most people alive (a bit longer):
- Heal. Heal when there's time. You're in that ogre cave, don't wait for the fight to heal. That's the one advice where i'd say no rp reason save being a masochist can make you not heal... And i can't see how that would be exploiting either.
- Use bottlenecks. Better the enemy be surrounded than you. That probably doesn't apply if you've PCs eager to fight (ex: low WIS barbarian, drunken dwarf and what not). Risk of exploit is luring: don't draw enemies one at a time so that they're always fighting 1 vs your team. Go in plain sight to draw them all.
- Concentrate attacks on one enemy. If you're surrounded by 4 agonizing trolls, you deserve to die. RP reasons not to do this would likely include wanting to size up to one enemy alone, being a class that is not familiar with combat, etc. Anything about exploiting here?
- Get out of clouds. Stinking clouds and others. Once you're in that cloud, you're fair game. Move out before resuming the fight. Don't moonwalk when you move out: that's exploit as you're preventing the enemy from attacking you.
- use ressources One blur potion will save you lots of healing. Do the maths. One mind ward will prevent most spells to render you unable to act. Don't use ressources... er, for example if you want to die. Risk of exploit: don't metagame the ressources you need until it's clear you do (ex: seeing because you OOCly know those invisible slayers are below Hoar, etc.)
kill spellcasters first They take time to get started, but when they do, they can be real bad. That means you must've identified them as spellcasters though.
trust your instinct If something is starting wrong, don't wait to drink those potions of blur/seeing/invisibility and so on. Better be safe than sorry. Don't be "safe" rather than "sorry" if your rp doesn't match (ex: ex LG paladins prefering their own safety than the on of the people they said they'd protect)
Feedback, comments, add-ins?