I didn't want to post a response in the DM board, so I'm posting this here...hope Professor Death doesn't mind.
Professor Death I've been perusing the boards for EFU-specific info on proper paladining, but haven't seen these addressed and I'd like to before I get into interacting with others:Let's say you have a non-human paladin whose God is the sworn protector of his race.
Would this paladin be expected to provide aid (gratuitous curing) to individuals not of the race? I'm not talking about life/death situations here, but about the kind of "let's all heal up before we move on" kind of curing.
How would the deity feel about him if he DID provide gratuitous curing and use of the paladinly powers to a non-racial unbeliever?
How would a deity feel about the potion brewing paladin selling his wares (obviously never to t evil), but perhaps to non-racial unbelievers?
Faced with a mission such as the brewery, would it be acceptable to engage the defenders with intent to kill, or should he be trying to peaceably subdue and bring them to justice? What about a mission (cannot think of one offhand) where the defenders are not monstrous, but not of his race?
I suppose the underlying theme here is about whether a nonhuman paladin might have something of a double standard....
Finally, I cannot remember seeing a post addressing this issue: Knowing that paladins cannot/should not willingly travel with evil, would they be expected to automatically scan everyone they "might" be traveling with, and does this "scan" have ingame visibility to others (for instance, a ranger kneels when tracking".
Not trying to be annoying here with the long list, but I've never played LG paladin types before who weren't, well, "generic" in their approaches. I'm hoping that playing a non-human paladin offers a chance for capturing some racial flavoring of the class.
As for my answer, what god are you talking about? Arvoreen of the halfling pantheon matches the description you have there. I'm sure there are elven gods of similar goals too.
I currently play a character in this position. One of the oaths is to protect your kinsmen and never back down until they are safe - even at the cost of your own life if necessary.
The unusual situation I've found myself in once or twice is in regards to evil members of my race. It poses an interesting moral dilemma to the player. Do you smite your kin since they are evil and you are a paladin? Or do you protect them as they are your kin still and you swore an oath to save them? Or do you save them, THEN smite them?
I won't tell you what choices I made or what you should make either. Just let the situation dictate what's best and see how your god would react.
As far as your question about healing, I would say yes, you should aid your kinsmen first, other races/friends of your respect next. Always aid them when they ask, unless you have a good reason not to.
Though you are a paladin, not a cleric, I don't know if 'gratuitous curing' is really their purpose. Though it's definitely not outside the realm of possibility...just keep in mind paladins are basically holy warriors and frontlinesmen - they'll usually be NEEDING the healing.
As to the question about 'scanning' everyone, there are a number of topics on the forums dealing with Detect Evil and it's use. just use the Search feature to find them.